- The wife always makes the rules.
- The husband gets to make the important decisions.
- The wife decides which decisions are important.
- Rules are subject to change at any time without prior spousal consent—i.e. male spousal consent.
- No husband can possibly know all of the rules. The wife will provide instruction as needed.
- If a wife suspects that the husband knows all of the rules after many years of marriage, she has the option to change some or all of them as the situation demands.
- The wife is never wrong.
- The wife can change her mind at any given time.
- The husband can never change his mind without the express consent of the wife, and she will let him know what the mind change shall be.
- The wife has every right and reason to be angry, hurt, or upset.
- If the wife appears to be wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding on the part of the husband and is almost always due to something the husband did or said. It is not necessary that the husband understands what the problem is or how he caused the problem.
- If Rule 11 applies, however obtuse, the husband is expected to apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
- The husband must remain calm at all times except when the wife requires anger or upset from him.
- The husband should not—under any circumstances—be allowed to know whether or not the wife wants the husband to be angry or upset.
- It is better for the husband to remain silent. Except that could cause a problem entitled, “He doesn’t talk to me.”